Until 2008, YMCA Victoria centres conducted an annual Local Community Father of the Year Award campaign. One father was chosen to become the Victorian Local Community Father of the Year.

From 2009, the Victorian Father of the Year is chosen from the Local Community Father of the Year finalists.

2008 - Terry Gilfuis

In nominating her father, 11 year old daughter Lauren Gilfuis described Terry as "her hero". The heart warming nomination from the Grade 6 student from St Patrick’s Primary School in Wangaratta celebrated the significant role Terry had played in her life.

"My hero is my dad because ever since my mum died he has looked after me. He is very caring (although sometimes an embarrassing man). He always spoils me and everyday he gives me big hugs. If we miss our big hugs he says, "We never had our big hug this morning." He has been through a rough patch but he got through it and he always helps us get over it, too. My dad is the best dad anyone could have. That’s why he is my hero,” she wrote.

For the past seven years since the death of his wife, Sue, Terry has raised his two daughters Melissa, 14, and Lauren, 11, with the support of family and friends. Sue passed away two days after Lauren’s fourth birthday, after a three year battle with breast cancer. A humble Terry said “My greatest reward will be seeing my girls at 18 say that I have contributed to their lives”.

"I am one dad standing here, but I like to think that I am representing the many thousands of Victorian dads whose sons and daughters were prompted to stop and think just what their dad means to them.  And if this prompting of those young children in turn cascades into a more loving relationship within their families – with cuddles and kisses – then what a fabulous thing this will be!" Terry said.

2007 - Kyle Odewahn

Kyle Odewahn, aged 24, gave up his carefree life and furniture polishing career to become 'dad' and full-time carer to his fiancé Samantha's four-year-old sister, Jordana Sannipoli, when her mother died. Kyle promised Sam and Jordana's mother that he would "always look after Jordana".

The commitment is especially noteworthy, given that Jordana was born with cystic fibrosis and requires regular medical appointments as well as the constant love and attention that any four year old requires.




2006 - Paul Bunker

"I'm shocked, it's unbelievable," said Greensborough father of two, Paul Bunker, of being named YMCA Victorian Community Father of the Year for 2006. "I'm just an ordinary guy."

Paul, a tram driver with Yarra Trams, who lost both his parents at a young age, said "I'm just an ordinary guy, but I would encourage all parents to participate in their kid's activities as much as you can, because as we all know, they grow up way too quickly."

Pictured: Paul Bunker (right) and his family, accept the award from Lord Mayor John So (centre).

2005 - Kevin O'Mara

Father of three and local Warrandyte community identity, Kevin is a role model for Victorian fathers everywhere. Kevin is dad to Erin, Paul and Joseph, aged from 22 to 18. A musician and former teacher, Kevin is deeply involved in local community activities and is proudest for having been intimately involved in his kids' lives.

"I really enjoy being involved with my kids. I feel as though I have been able to give them opportunities whilst enjoying time with them."

2004 - Glenn Wade

Glenn Wade, of Bendigo, demonstrates the importance of a balanced work and family life. He is an integral part of a strong partnership with his wife Debbie to raise their four children Sophie, Lucy, Mason and McKenzie.

His eldest daughter, Sophie has cerebral palsy and requires daily support, which Glenn is intimately involved in providing, despite his own battle for the last fifteen years with chronic fatigue. Glenn's wife, Debbie, says "He's my hero! Glenn has always encouraged the children and myself." Debbie recently returned to study and Glenn provided support and encouragement for Debbie to fulfill her ambitions while providing a shared role in parenting their children.

2003 - Tony Mellington

Tony Mellington of the Geelong suburb of Corio, and his wife Deirdre are busy raising four daughters, born within a five year period; Mairead, Emma, Roisin (Rosie) and Kathleen (Kate).

Rosy, or 'Plugger' as she is known by her dad in recognition of her tenacity and fighting spirit, was born with severe and multiple disabilities, including the inability to see, hear or communicate. Now twelve years old, her survival and high quality of life is due largely to the huge financial, emotional and physical support she has received from Tony and Deidre.

Tony, an absolutely dedicated father, works tirelessly and unselfishly to support his family, constantly juggling work and family commitments. He never complains and is always quick to offer a smile and have a laugh with all of his girls.

To find out more about the past recipients of the YMCA Victorian Community Father of the Year Award, visit the YMCA Victoria website